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50 Things Every Boy Should Know
1.) We check our phones every hour to see if you have replied to our texts, then worry if you haven’t.
2.) We do not care if 50,000 other guys declared their love for us, for if you never do it none of it matters.
3.) You will be classed in our ‘Hate’ list if you forget our birthday.
4.) When we say everything is ‘fine’, it generally means everything is absolutely horrible and we are on the brink of falling to pieces.
5.) If we see you slow dancing with another girl, expect fates worse than death.
6.) We don’t care what our friends think of you, but we do care what your friends think of us.
7.) Our favorite part of the YM convo is at the end when you say good bye, because that’s the part you say you love us.
8.) EVERYTHING said to our friends will be told to us. Guaranteed.
9.) We like it when you are protective of us. It makes us feel special.
10.) Understand that even if she’s your best friend, it makes us feel insecure when you treat her sweeter than us.
11.) We mind it when you complain on having to wait for us after class.
12.) We hate feeling as if we are just like any other ordinary girl.
13.) We have mood swings. Get over it already.
14.) When we come back from a holiday and brag about how awesome it was, during the entire time there we were probably thinking about you. A lot.
15.) When your friend says something bad about us, it means the world to us if you come to our defense.
16.) Please don’t stand 384931491329403 feet away from us. Even if we are scary.
17.) Understand that we can get very moody during THAT TIME of the month.
18.) We hate it when we share something and all you reply is OK.
19.) We will move mountains on our timetable if it means seeing you.
20.) NEVER insult our friends. It hurts more than you can possibly know.
21.) If a girl openly flirts with you, we love it when you tell them your heart’s already taken.
22.) If you want to know something about us, ask our best friend.
23.) We actually freak out on what to do during holidays like Valentines Day.
24.) When you say you’ll call, actually do it. Don’t leave us hanging.
25.) Cheesy pick-up lines might not work, but they can always make us laugh.
26.) We don’t want to hear how incredibly hot your ex-girlfriend/neighbor/best gal friend is.
27.) We secretly hope your mom loves us.
28.) We hate it when you don’t tell us your ‘invisible’ in our chat window.
29.) When we are mad at you, we aren’t actually mad. We just want you to apologize so we can start showing you that we like you again.
30.) Some of our friends know EVERYTHING about us.
31.) When you treat us badly, beware of our girlfriends.
32.) We hate it when the song you pick as “ours” was the song you and your ex-girlfriend used to sing to.
33.) Yes, you might be the reason we failed that Math test.
34.) We don’t care about what we talk about, just as long as we have your attention for a few minutes.
35.) Though we don’t show it, reading other girls post sweet comments on your page is like a bullet to the heart.
36.) Of course, we do believe the crap we read in magazines.
37.) We love it when you not only watch girly movies with us, but you actually pretend to enjoy them.
38.) We compare every other guy to you, and you always come out best.
39.) We love it when you fight for us.
40.) Don’t brag about other girls liking you, it just makes us insecure.
41.) Silent Treatment + Short Answers + Not Smiling or Laughing + Evil Looks = YOU DID SOMETHING WRONG.
42.) We over-analyze everything.
43.) We over-react to everything.
44.) We worry when your messages don’t include enough smilies.
45.) Always tell us the truth. We’ll find out sooner or later anyway.
46.) We don’t care if you couldn’t come on that date because of the most embarrassing reason in the world, just don’t lie to us.
47.) You will never understand how much it means when you introduce us to your family.
48.) We secretly like it when you call us “yours”.
49.) Be on time. We will think you don’t care if you’re not on time at a certain place.
50.) And for the love of God, just shut up about how beautiful and sexy other girls are. We hate hearing these kind of things. You know we like you and the fact you do this despite you knowing how we feel is just evil.
Note: This is a repost from a blogger in Tumblr which she also reposted. I do not claim that I have written this, I simply adored these facts and thus sharing them on WordPress
Guardian Angel
I dedicate this special post for you, my guardian angel…
I thank you for always believing that I can do things my way.
I thank you for never complaining my deficiencies.
I thank you for accompanying me that silly lonely night when I couldn’t close my eyes.
I thank you for always listening and keeping my whole sentences.
I thank you for giving your best effort to comfort me.
I thank you for always giving me positive reinforcements to whatever achievements I made.
I thank you for never scolding me.
I thank you for always reminding me to sleep no later than 11pm.
I thank you for always waking me up gently before dawn to let me having my own private time with Him.
I thank you for making me better in every day.
I thank you for the happiness, laughs, and worries you share with me.
I thank you for the love, care and assisstance you give me.
I thank you for everything…
My guardian angel, I do thank you for everything.
cinta, lagi-lagi cinta!
Membahas masalah cinta memang tak akan pernah ada habisnya. Aku sendiri bosan sebenarnya menulis hal itu: cinta. Tapi ini masalah lain. Ini bukan tentang cinta superficial antara dua remaja. Ini tentang cinta antara manusia dengan Tuhannya.
Begini ceritanya:
Beberapa waktu lalu aku berkesempatan (menyempatkan diri tepatnya) ngobrol via facebook chat dengan salah seorang seniorku. Hal-hal seputar Pemilu Presiden dan tetek bengeknya menjadi focus kami saat itu. Dia mengajakku masuk Golongan Putih (kaum GolPut maksudnya). Dia memang orang yang punya pemikiran2 unik tentang dunia dan seisinya. Termasuk ketika dia mengalihkan topic pembicaraan menjadi masalah CINTA.
Dia: gua mau tanya tapi yang ini serius ya.
Aku: OK.
Dia: menurut lo cinta kepada Tuhan itu seperti apa sih?
Aku: mmm…
Dia: belakangan ini gua lagi mempertanyakan banyak hal, dan pertanyaan itu salah satu yang terpenting.
Aku terdiam. Tak mudah menjawab pertanyaan sejenis itu. Perlu pemikiran, salah2 dia jadi makin aneh pemikirannya!
Aku: cinta itu bukan kata, ia tindakan. Jangan bilang cinta sama Tuhan kalo gak patuh. Jangan bilang cinta sama pasangan kalo gak perhatian.
Dia: yuyuyu…bener tuh! Tapi gua punya definisi lain.
Aku: (mulai khawatir dan berdoa semoga definisinya tak melenceng!)
Dia: gua gak terlalu rajin shalat di masa lalu. Tapi gua tau,,
Aku: tau apa?
Dia: gua gak mau shalat karena terpaksa, karena gua takut neraka or karena berharap surga. Gw mau shalat karena ikhlas. Karena gua pengen mendekatkan diri sama Dia…karena gua pengen kenal Dia lebih jauh. Dengan ikhlas.
Aku:
Ternyata setiap orang punya pemikiran tentang cinta. Tidak melulu harus cinta yang terungkap dengan mudahnya dengan panggilan “sayang”, terlalu banyak cinta diluar sana, tak perlu didefinisikan lagi. Yang jelas pernyataan orang itu membuatku tersenyum karena memang bagitulah cinta kepadaNya seharusnya. Ikhlas, itu adalah tingkatan tertinggi dalam mencinta.